by Dennis Bright
Last weekend we held this year's first Youth Horsemanship Clinic here on the ranch. It
was a nip and tuck race with the storm front that was moving in on us, but for once our
luck held and the steely gray clouds gave way to sunny skies by mid-afternoon. Something
special happens for me when I teach children, perhaps it's because for a brief period of
time, I revisit my own youth and the wonderful memories of my early horse experiences.
This was especially highlighted when a childhood friend of mine, Pat Cross, brought his
daughter Libby to the clinic. Talk about a reality check! I couldn't believe it had been
over 20 years since we'd last seen each other.
Our parents met back in the 1960's when they competed with each other as members of the
Santa Clara Valley Pony Racing Club. Yes, they really did race those ponies as trotters,
just like the big horses! My first pony, "Melody", was a beautiful black
Shetland mare that my parents, Dennis and Sylvia Bright, bought for me as a Christmas
present from Fern Feldman. At the time, she raised show ponies at her ranch off of McKean
Road in south San Jose.
I was seven years old and wasn't quite ready to handle "Melody" on my own, so
my parents had her trained to drive and pull a cart. It was then that my mother realized
my pony's potential as a trotter, which began her racing career. Our racing colors were
red and white and it was quite a picture watching Mom outfitted in her racing silks and
"Melody" with her mane and tail flying as they blazed around the dirt race track
against the other teams.
My mother raced "Melody" for two seasons and I was their groom. My
responsibilities included feeding, grooming and harnessing my pony to the cart for her
daily workouts. By the second season I was exercising her all on my own. It was quite a
thrill for me as an eight year old to race the wind with my very own black beauty.
Our Youth Clinic was the first opportunity for many of the kids to be around horses,
which made for some interesting commentary. One of our students, Eric, was asked what he
would like to learn about horses and he replied, " I've never even seen a horse up
close before!" By the end of the day, Eric was riding one of our lesson horses and
wearing a grin from ear to ear! Another student, Michael, was a bit nervous when it came
for his turn to ride a horse for the first time in his young life, so I asked him how he
felt. He said," OK, but this horse sure is tall!"
The star of the day for the children was a wonderful miniature horse, "Tate",
owned by one of our adult students and instructors for the day, Terri Stinson. This little
horse stood all of 36 inches tall and is fully grown! He was terrific with the kids as he
helped them learn how to lead and stood by patiently while they learned to groom.
Looking back now, I truly understand the gift my parents gave me and how it helped to
shape the person I am today. The early experiences gave me a sense of responsibility
and
the pride of accomplishment that came with caring for my horses. That was the message I
shared with the parents on the morning of the clinic. As a parent, you just never know
exactly what activity, hobby or event will spark an interest in your child that may help
them as they journey through their life toward adulthood. I know we can all agree, our
children need as much help and care as we can give them.
Last modified: Sunday, July 28, 2002